Welcome to
YOUR
TURNING POINT
The turn is just the beginning
Meet your new coach
Hi,
I'm Dr. Alette
Widows and Black women of faith,
I SEE YOU.
Feeling unseen, unheard, unvalued,
I KNOW YOU.
Ready to live in a better way on a different path,
I AM YOU.
I am a Black woman of faith who became widowed--and discovered just how much these two journeys overlap. Too often, both groups fight for voice, value, and visibility.
THIS struggle should not be real, yet, here we are.
I'm here to walk with you--coaching, encouraging, and shining a light to help you create your path out from the darkness and the isolation.
It's time to forge ahead... to live life in a better way... and to find community along the way.
Stepping out of the darkness is courageous.
Asking for help is strength.
Seeking community is wise.
Encouraging women to be courageous, strong, and wise?
That's my superpower.
Let's get to know each other-- and go on this journey together.
Member, International Coaching Federation
Certified Grief Recovery Method Specialist®, GRI
Certified Grief Coach, IOPGC
Certified Life Coach, CTACC
All About Our
MINISTRIES
Get to Know us
She Turned Ministries, Inc. - For widows and Black women of faith.
The turn is just the beginning.
We are a nonprofit movement walking alongside women through life-altering loss, grief, and transitions. Whether you're facing widowhood, navigating deep faith questions, or rebuilding life after brokenness—this is where hope meets healing and resilience begins.
First Year Covered - For all widows navigating the first 12 months of loss.
Widows rooted, covered, and seen
This outreach ministry supports all widows through the first year of loss—when life feels uprooted and direction feels unclear. Through care, connection, and spiritual grounding, we help her take the first steps toward healing.
Seen & Sustained Sisterhood - For Black women widows seeking culturally affirming grief support and sisterhood.
Black Women Widows: Supported and Valued
A culturally responsive sisterhood offering grief support, community care, and identity-affirming coaching for Black women widows. This is a space to grieve, grow, and gather strength—without having to carry it all alone.
UNshaken. UNalone. UNafraid. - For Black women of faith healing from church-based disappointments while staying grounded in God.
Covered and Connected but not Confined.
This movement is where sacred sisterhood meets truth-telling. Through coaching, community, and conversation, we empower you to stay rooted in faith while reclaiming your voice, purpose, and confidence—even when the church has felt like a place of pain.
Quick Look at Our
SIGNATURE
CORNERSTONE
TURNS
These Cornerstone Turns are the pivots on which everything else in our ministries is built
SIGNATURE
CORNERSTONE TURN
First Year
Covered
The Grounding Call
A signature orientation session that welcomes a widow into the journey.
“You’re not crazy. You’re grieving."
This talk names your fears, normalizes disorientation, and offers simple rhythms to help you feel seen, stabilized, and covered.
SIGNATURE
CORNERSTONE TURN
Seen & Sustained
Sisterhood
The Strong Isn’t Silent Series
Signature workshops dismantling the “Strong Black Woman” schema while affirming resilience with rest, resistance with softness, and legacy with love.
Topics: “Softness Is Not a Sin,” “Reclaiming Rest in a Restless World,” “Grieving in the Gaps of Representation.”
SIGNATURE
CORNERSTONE TURN
UNshaken.
UNalone.
UNafraid.
The Journey to Potential
(Mini Masterclass Series)
Break down the D-Liber8 Path framework into 8 short, digestible teachings—with a coaching question and scripture reflection after each.
Some Kind Words
TESTIMONIALS
building together
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"Dr. Alette creates a 'workable' plan. She doesn't ask anyone to do something they do not have the knowledge or ability to do. Dr. Alette asks for accountability and commitment to 'work the plan'."
Karen D.
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“Dr. Alette has a unique way of slowly taking the covers we hide under off the bed to expose that we are limiting our potential. She helps people see that it's imperative to live in God's purpose to be effective, fulfilled, and constantly growing.”
Gayle K.
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“Dr. Alette is a great coach because she listens well, then discerns, then takes appropriate action. She does all of this with an ear, heart, and mind of love and truly wanting the best for the person."
Allison V.
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“When it comes to professionalism, just five minutes with her is a discharge of knowledge mixed with enthusiasm and charisma that makes you be encouraged to do new things. Her advice and counsel are great resources that will work as references in every stage of your life. I completely recommend the services of Dr. Alette Stevens for your next awesome transformation into who you are called to be.”
Sandra M.
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In the words of Maya Angelou
"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly,
but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty."
"Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman."
MY GIFT TO YOU
THIS Amazing
FREE RESOURCE!
THE TURN: A Guided Reflective Experience for Widows and Black Women of Faith
This beautifully designed digital resource blends faith-rooted journaling prompts, scriptural encouragement, and a spoken-word style audio reflection to help women pause, process, and begin again after life-altering events like grief, widowhood, spiritual disappointment, or identity disorientation.
Whether she’s newly widowed, reeling from loss, or simply weary from trying to be strong for too long—this experience meets her at the crossroads and gently asks, What would happen if you turned?
This guided experience is:
~ Quiet enough for her pain
~ Bold enough for her purpose
~ Grounded enough for her faith
~ Compassionate enough for her cultural reality
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Clarity at the Crossroads
Guides you through a simple yet transformative framework to name where you've been, where you are, and what you need in order to move forward with intention.
“I didn’t realize how much I was carrying until I sat still and listened.”
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Faith &
Self-Affirmation
Each section is anchored in both scripture and identity-rebuilding truth—so you don’t just reflect, you rebuild your belief in God’s presence and your own worth.
“I am still seen. I am still sustained. I am still valued.”
USUALLY $97, ALL yours FREE!
All for You
What’s Included:
16-page PDF Guide with reflection prompts, scriptures, journaling space, and motivational challenges
10-minute Audio Companion featuring Dr. Alette —
gentle, guided, and grounding direction
Mini Encouragement Poster (printable)
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Emotionally Safe,
Culturally Wise
Written with Black women and widows in mind, this resource affirms your full humanity—without requiring you to shrink your emotions, overexplain your struggle, or pretend you're okay when you're not.
Rooted in dignity. Written with care. Created by one who knows.
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Hope She Can Hold Onto
By the end of the experience, you won’t just feel better—you'll have language, scripture, and small next steps to take with you into the next chapter of your journey.
“The turn” is more than an idea. It’s a sacred invitation to rise.
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