By any other name...

Grief Coaching

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When the world expects you to be strong...

who sees your pain?

Black women are often the anchors — for family, for church, for community.
We show up. We hold it together. We push through.
But strength doesn’t mean the loss didn’t break something inside.

The pain we feel is often grief in disguise.

Sometimes grief is loud.
But sometimes it’s quiet — hiding under the roles we carry and the expectations placed on us.

Grief doesn’t always look like tears.
Sometimes it looks like exhaustion.
Irritability.
A loss of self.
A smile that feels like work.

The world may not notice.
But God does.
And He has not forgotten your grief.

What if this is the moment where YOU get to be seen?

Grief-to-Resilience Coaching with She Turned Ministries is created for the Black woman who:

Has been the "strong one" her. whole. life.

Is grieving a husband, a dream, a community... or all three

Loves God deeply but wonders why this hurts so much

Needs space to fall apart without feeling like a burden

Struggles to ask for help — because help has rarely been available

Here... you don't have to explain your grief.

You don't have to hide it.

You don't have to rush it.

This is a safe place to heal.

With God — and with community.

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What Grief Really Looks Like

Grief wears many faces.

Grief isn’t just tears and sadness—it can show up as:

Irritability or numbness you can’t explain
Overworking or overserving to avoid thinking about your loss
Feeling detached from joy or faith, even when you pray
Quiet resentment when no one checks on you but you check on everyone else
Losing interest in what once brought peace

You may not call it grief—but your heart knows it’s there. This is your invitation to stop minimizing your pain and start making space for your healing.

God Sees You, Even Here

Even when the world overlooks your pain, God does not. He saw Hagar in the wilderness, Naomi in her bitterness, and Mary weeping outside the tomb. He sees you too—strong, faithful, tired, and still showing up. In His eyes, your tears are prayers. Your silence still speaks. Your healing matters.

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”

— Psalm 34:18 (NIV)

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The Grief Recovery Method®

Evidence-based & Time-tested

The only evidence-based Grief Recovery program in the world that's over 40 years old.

We are proud to say that research conducted by Kent State University has shown that The Grief Recovery Method® approach to helping grievers deal with the pain of emotional loss in any relationship is “Evidence Based” and effective. We are also proud to say that our program is the only Grief Support Program to have received this distinction of being evidence based!

This is an action-based, powerful, directed approach to healing from life's deepest heartbreaks.

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BENEFIT 1

Name what hurts and release the guilt of “being too strong”

BENEFIT 2

Attain tools to take effective and lasting action, no matter the type of loss experienced

BENEFIT 3

Work with a certified Grief Recovery Specialist® to move through loss with dignity and respect

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Ready to start your healing?

Learn how to recover from loss with supportive guidance every step of the way. Schedule a confidential call with Dr. Alette, certified Grief Recovery Specialist and certified Grief Coach, to begin your Grief Recovery Method® journey.

You’ve carried everyone else’s healing long enough.
It’s time to care for your own.

Schedule a call

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Grief-to-Resilience Coaching

Healing for the heart, not just the habit.

You don’t have to walk through it alone. We’re here to help you rise from grief with grace, grounded in faith and sustained by sisterhood through faith-based coaching, guided reflection, and community care.

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Why culturally aware grief support matters

Black Womens Grief is Often:

Minimized ("You're so strong -- you'll be fine"
Misunderstood (Aren't you over that yet?")
Masked through survival mode
Mishandles by systems (medical, religious, financial) that weren't built for us

Our Approach

Your healing should honor:

Your Story
Your Identity
Your Pace
Your Faith

Your Benefits

Find community with women who understand your unspoken pain

Release the weight you've been carrying
Restore your voice and emotional freedom
Rebuild dignity and hope for the future
Remember that grief is not weakness -- grief is love

This space centers both your humanity and your heritage: the faith, resilience, cultural wisdom, and sacred tears that make your healing unique.

Ready for your next?

Join our Grief-to-Resilience Coaching or explore Deep Calls to Deep, our devotional created to walk beside women in the tender seasons of loss.
Connect with our community or schedule a confidential consultation with Dr. Alette, certified Grief Recovery Specialist® and certified Grief Coach.

You’ve carried everyone else’s healing long enough.
It’s time to care for your own.